4 Tips for Handling Change with God

“Transition is God’s form of promotion.” —T.D. Jakes

Just before the New Year, we were praying and feeling like God was taking us into a season of transition.  We did not know all of the details, however we knew that a transition was coming.  In the beginning, it seemed scary. We had lived in D.C. for over twenty years, we were very comfortable, happy, and our children were very settled.  We were blessed and planted in a great church, where we worked as Associate Pastors.

So, Why would God ask us to move?

In today’s teaching, I am going to show you Four Keys regarding how God leads us in seasons of transition.

1. He Starts to Make You feel Uncomfortable:

God asking us to move, definitely placed us outside our comfort zone.  We were reminded of when Moses was called by God to lead His people out of Egypt.

Moses felt comfortable where he was, he also felt unqualified to do what God was calling him to do.

We knew that if God was calling us to move, then He was going to give us what we needed to see it through.

2. God Reveals things Little by Little:

It is funny, we say things to God like, “I surrender all”, but we do not really understand the magnitude of that statement.  We don’t really expect God to take us up on it!

When we prayed for answers regarding the specific details of our move, those details did not come to us all at once.  The answers came little by little.  

God reveals answers to us little by little through His word and through other people.  God will supply just enough light for each step you take toward what He is calling you to do.

3. It Does Not Seem to Make Sense:

In the natural, it seemed crazy that we would pick up and leave.  People would ask us questions, that we did not have answers to.

What we did know,  was that if God was calling us to this, we did not need to know all of the answers.

Here is the Key: God never says people will fully understand.  God asks us to fully obey!

The bible says we walk by Faith not by sight.  Who walks? You do!

Walk by faith and be obedient to where God is leading you to go!

4. Utter Surrender and Total Trust:

God requires us to totally surrender to His will.  God asks us to un-pry our hands off the steering wheel of life and give him control.

Sometimes, we think we are surrendering, but as soon as something happens, we begin to feel insecure and out of our comfort zone.

 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways submit to him and He will make your paths straight.”- Proverbs 3: 5-6


Remember:  God goes before you! 

We are now living in a new city and have a new apartment.  God is still unveiling to us more and more of his plan for our lives.

Dear child, I want your full attention; please do what I show you”- Proverbs 23:36


Whether you are moving into transition, fully in transition or moving out of transition, know that God is going before you, ordering your steps. Go and do what he is showing you to do!


Get Unstuck Instantly! with Dr. Mcayla Sarno

“95% of all of our actions, feelings and behaviors come from OUTSIDE of our conscious awareness.” Dr. Mcayla Sarno, Brain Expert and Licensed Psychotherapist

Licensed psychotherapist, brain training and mindset expert, Dr. Mcayla Sarno joins us to explain the step-by-step system to getting unstuck and bringing lasting transformation to our lives.

In this fascinating interview, Dr. Mcayla explains:


  • That when circumstances enter our lives, our brains form conclusions outside of our awareness.


  • We may not have all of the information we need to properly process these situations—so we tend to “fill in the gaps”


  • The problem is we fill in the gaps with inaccurate information, which then become part of our beliefs and those beliefs begin controlling our lives.

It is when these inaccurate perceptions get lodged into our unconscious mind and that it results in the strong feeling of being stuck, in a pattern, behavior or season of our life.

Because our beliefs are coming from our subconscious mind,driving us into fear, doubt, and poor habit— we find ourselves remarking, “WHY did I do that?”

The challenge then becomes how to uncover what is happening in our subconscious mind. How can we dive into the subconscious mind to dislodge the things that can hold us back from achieving our potential?

Here are the two steps that can immediately thrust you forward today, into achieving more of what God fully intends for you:

1. Discover the Illusion.


When we face challenges, we create “illusions” as a coping mechanism.

We tell our selves things like, “If I play it safe, I can avoid disappointment”.  The problem is, that is not true.

We have to shift our focus from our “past pain” and embrace the reality that we do matter, and we do have what it takes.  We have to retrain our minds to receive the fact that we may not be able to control what happened to us, but we can control how we choose to handle what happened. Our worth, value and capabilities are not in situations, material things, or people.   

When you can discover the illusion—you gain control and begin the journey of stepping into your purpose.


Do it Now:

To discover an illusion you may be harboring, ask yourself, “What is it that you are not doing? What do you think is helping you NOT do it? What are you doing to help yourself believe that you are “good enough”? Inside the answer to these questions, are the illusions we are creating.


2. Question Your Perception.

“You cannot find purpose without finding meaning, and you cannot find meaning—unless you make sense of your story. The better you know yourself the clearer your path to purpose.” Dr. Mcayla Sarno

To achieve success in our lives requires “brain work”. In order to become unstuck, you must question what you believe to be true.

Don’t take what you perceive as TRUTH.

Our perception can be based on emotion and emotion is not face value.  It fluctuates and deceives.  Take a look at past victories to revive confidence in your capabilities.  For example, once you have courage and strength, you can’t lose it. They are traits that stick with you!

Fear can tell you that you don’t have it, but the reality is—that you do.


Do it Now:

Recall a memory of an incident where you exhibited courage and hold it consciously in your mind. Now, question your perception of your current challenge, and bring it back in line with what is true and right in your life.

Overcoming Fear with God: How to Break Intimidation Instantly | Free Workshop

Is there something you are dragging your feet on? Something you know you need to do but, just have not taken the first step?

I want to submit to you that you may be in Fear. Today we will explore some tips and I will show you a fear setting exercise that will break you out of those fears!

Fear can be so paralyzing. It can grapple us and make us feel helpless. I am often asked “How do I overcome fear, especially when the fear is related to pursuing what I know I am supposed to do?”

I believe that one the first steps in overcoming fear is to acknowledge that you are afraid, but also realize that fear does not come from God. It is NOT his best plan for us. 2 Timothy 1:7 says “God does not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind”. God’s best for us is to experience perfect peace, joy, and love.

Nehemiah was tasked to build a wall. It was no sooner that he began his great work that he was faced with adversity. His response was amazing. In verse 8-10 of chapter 6 he responds. “Nothing you are saying is happening, you are making it up in your head, they are all trying to frighten us thinking their hands will get to weak for the work and it will not be completed, but I prayed, strengthen my hands.” His response to the adversity was to press through with even greater determination. He was so firm in his conviction that he was doing God’s work he would not let anything stop him. We can be like Nehemiah. When fear comes knocking at our door, in whatever form, we can turn that fear into determination.

Sometimes we feel hesitation when we set out to do what we know we are supposed to do. This is actually a good thing. It shows us that the enemy is resisting us in this area, but, it also means we are going in the right direction. Steven Presfield says, “The more scared we are of a work or calling, the more we should be sure we should do it.” Don’t allow that hesitation to stop you, allow it to propel you!

One indicator of fear is Procrastination. Procrastination comes in many forms, but can be poison to our purpose if we give it a foothold. We procrastinate for several reasons.

1. Guilt or Shame.

Often we feel shame if we have stepped out and failed. Fear of failure is a huge stalemate to moving into our purpose. The enemy will try to create a resume of failure when it was only one incidence. Know this, right now you are forgiven by Christ. You are continually cleansed and made new by Christ; He washes our failures and remembers them no more. Don’t allow the lies of failure, guilt or shame stop you from living all of what God has for you.

2. Caring What Other People Think.

The reality is other people do not think about you as much as you think they do. We are hardwired to think about ourselves, but the reality is that others don’t really think about us. Don’t let the perceived notion of others thoughts or words stop you from doing what God is calling you to do.

3. A Vague, Nebulous Feeling.

We may not understand why we are afraid but we just know we have a very uncomfortable feeling. If this is you I want you to try this exercise.

In this weeks podcast episode, I show you a powerful exercise will not only reveal to you what you are afraid of, but how you can determine the source of that fear so you can come up with a solution to that fear. Knowledge is power. If you can assess the what and why behind fear, you can take the step to conquering that fear and continuing into the purpose and plan that God has for you!